Thursday, September 20, 2012

How to Get a Guy to Notice You

1 Walk in front of him. It may be very simple, but it works. When coming out of the class, or playing in gym class, just walk in front of him, and he should be able to notice you. If he walks in front of you a lot, he probably likes you.

2 Feel good about yourself. But make sure to be open and friendly, or he is going to think you're weird and not at all approachable. Be confident about who you are. Being yourself is good but don't do something crazy to get his attention! You don't want to lead someone on like a puppy taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation.

3 Be happy. Smile often, laugh often, be positive and be optimistic. Don't complain or be negative. He'll think you are stuck up and that's a huge turn-off. Nobody notices somebody who is boring, dull, or not funny. Guys will notice the girl that smiles cutely, the girl that laughs naturally, the girl that looks happy and bright. Always remember that you don't need a man to make you happy, so show him that you are happy even before you get together. It shows real confidence! Guys normally like girls with beautiful smiles.

4 Try to become his friend. Get to know him better. Yes, you might like him, but first, become his friend. Start liking things that he likes, but don't get too much involved. He might become too crowded. First, try by asking him questions. Don't take it wrong if he says something bad about what you like. That's just his opinion, so don't get mad or give up! Just try talking about something different, but don't stop doing what you like to do. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then let him be. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while. Because variety might be the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye. Try being that girl who is different from all the other "okay" looking girls. Give him the eyes, because "beauty is common, but a good outlook and great energy are very rare." Guys love when girls look them in the eyes. However, be true to yourself, otherwise he might ending up liking you, but, not your actual self.

5 Consider letting him know you are single. Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true. No guy wants a girl that pretends like she is something she is not. Show him that you are a good friend. Listen to the music he listens to. Just don't come on too clingy. No boy wants a girl who just follows him around all day. In addition, if you want to find out more about him, don't stalk the poor guy. Just find out about him from his friends you trust. For example, ask them about his likes and dislikes, what music he is into, what concerts he goes to, if he likes anyone, etc. Be confident in yourself, and it will show that you are an amazing person. Don't be someone you're not. You want him to like you for who you are.

6 Don't be awkwardly flirtatious. If he's not talking to you at the moment then don't come on too strong. Don't be a bear in hibernation either!

7 Smile and make eye contact. If you don't smile, he won't notice you and if he does, he might just think you're boring and not worth talking to. So you should always put on a great smile to attract his attention. Think you're not good at smiling? Think of something to make you laugh, find something interesting on his body to like, or you can try putting on a fake smile and you may find that a real, genuine smile will appear all of a sudden. You have to make yourself happy in order to be happy. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.

8 Be cute. He will come over and talk to you. Don't be a total wallflower, but if you're just reading, try and look cute and wait until he can't resist and he might ask what book you're reading and take the conversation on from there. Remember to look at him and not the book when he talks to you. In that way you will look interested in him, and make him feel welcome. Then he will think you are friendly.

9 Flirt. Do it as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting, especially with other guys, will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way. So be careful! Don't do too much, but not too little either. Sometimes you might look too girlie, popular, wanna-be, etc. If he reacts and you don't think it's real, he's just doing it because you're there and you're a girl and he thinks he can do better, but let him know he can't. If he is faking it, call his bluff and say something that makes him know you don't think he is "all that".

For example, if he comes close, pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance his ego. And he won't get the right impression.

10 Start up conversations that interest you both. Make sure you don't go on about nothing. Definitely make sense when you talk to him. Don't twirl your hair, flick your eyelashes or giggle nonstop. He can get kind of scared and make fun of you. No matter how old you are, guys will always be the same. Be yourself! Just be who you are, that's the #1 quality guys look for in a girl.

11 Hang out with him often but not too often; you don't always want to be hanging around because you might look like an annoying bug that's always around and never goes away. Try to start a conversation about an interesting topic, for example, if you're at a football game, ask confidently but cutely, "Did I miss any action?". This will tell him that you want to know about the game, but also you want to get his opinion, so he will automatically talk to you about the game (or other topics). Start slowly like a movie or party. Try not to make it so noticeable because he might not be interested.

12 Be assertive. You are the girl. You have the power. A lot of guys are shy and awkward around girls they like, so don't hold back. Do what you want to do. Boys like a powerful girl. Be decisive. Which means make decisions! Tell him what you want him to do, etc. Just don't get too bossy!

13 Make him feel special. There has got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.

14 Wear appropriate make-up. Make-up is a powerful tool; it can enhance your natural beauty or overshadow you entirely. Choose a look that suits your face, your coloring, and your clothing style. Then learn to apply it well. You know, guys hate girls who wear too much make up. They may think it looks hot for a while but then it tends to be like this: They break up with you (think you're just a doll) and fall in love with a natural girl.

15 Don't be a slob. It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't brushed her hair, hasn't cleaned her ears (they always look in there) or wears the same outfit every other day. Even if you don't fall within the typical expectations, you must at least look presentable. It is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl.

16 Just talk to him. When it comes down to it, talking to a guy, and flirting with him, will get his attention, and if it doesn't, then nothing will work to solve it.

17 If he's looking your way, give him something to look at. If he's looking at you, you can:
Look away shyly, making you seem mysterious because he can't figure out why you did that.
 Look into his eyes really briefly, then smile and drop something so you can "pick it up". (don't be too obvious, that will make you seem weird and desperate). Ignore him. Let him watch you by himself. If he is looking only at you, try to share your thoughts. Ex. You are in a boring class, using your facial expression and pulled a face at the teacher, then looking back at him and smile. Sharing these intimate moments makes you closer to him.

18 If you catch him sneaking glances at you, then he is probably interested and trying to keep you in his sight but don't let him know that you are looking at him.

19 But most importantly, do not be indecent. Be yourself, not a plastic Barbie doll. It's okay once in awhile to show off your body, but do it in a minor way. Don't wear shirts that reveal too much and don't wear extremely tight pants and shorts that look like Megan Fox should be wearing them.

20 Find out what kinds of things he likes and try to get into them too. He'll appreciate the fact you two have things in common but don't copy everything about him.

21 If you have never talked to this guy before, just smile at him when you pass by. Subtle hints like that will keep you in his mind. He will be saying "Who was she? Great smile, hair, face, etc." or "I need to find out who she is". He will then be dropping smiles back to you, and one thing will lead to another. There is proof that this will work. Just try it out yourself. If you don't get the desired results, just try saying a simple, "Hi." It will show him you're bold. This could make the start of great friends, which could make the start of a great boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

22 If you notice that he's trying to flirt with you, don't ignore it , flirt back but don't be to obvious , play a lil bit hard to get but not too hard or he will just give up and start with a new girl

23 Try not to over-flirt. Just a little bit here and there is fine. Too much= looking like a slut who flirts with just about every other guy.If the guy is decent enough, he probably won't like the slutty type.

24 If you are afraid to talk to him, and everyone's pestering you to, talk to him when you feel comfortable about it, no matter how long it takes. Do look at him occasionally cutely and attract his attention, drop him hints, and if you have a mutual friend get them to ask him what he thinks about you and maybe even get your mutual friend to tell him you think he's good looking or something, this way he will know you like him and you don't even have to tell him!!

25 Be yourself, people always say to be yourself, but nobody listens to it. Think about it. If the relationship continues, you will be living on a lie. It all won't be real. At some point he will see the real you, so just show him now.

26 Don't wait too long. If you're finding that you have feelings for a guy that you don't really know, such a guy who goes to your school, you've had classes with him, but you still haven't really talked to him at all, then you have to get on it. Don't wait months to talk to him because If he feels the same way at first, but he's too shy, then he'll feel like you're just not interested. When you realize that you like him, take charge and make the first move, if he doesn't. Let him know that you like him, because he might feel the same way. But you'll never know unless you let him know. Plus if you wait months to talk to him, you may lose your confidence to chat with him because it's been so long since you two first met, or talked last.

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