1 Walk in front of him. It may be very simple, but it works.
When coming out of the class, or playing in gym class, just walk in front of
him, and he should be able to notice you. If he walks in front of you a lot, he
probably likes you.
2 Feel good about yourself. But make sure to be open and
friendly, or he is going to think you're weird and not at all approachable. Be
confident about who you are. Being yourself is good but don't do something
crazy to get his attention! You don't want to lead someone on like a puppy
taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable
situation.
3 Be happy. Smile often, laugh often, be positive and be
optimistic. Don't complain or be negative. He'll think you are stuck up and
that's a huge turn-off. Nobody notices somebody who is boring, dull, or not
funny. Guys will notice the girl that smiles cutely, the girl that laughs
naturally, the girl that looks happy and bright. Always remember that you don't
need a man to make you happy, so show him that you are happy even before you
get together. It shows real confidence! Guys normally like girls with beautiful
smiles.
4 Try to become his friend. Get to know him better. Yes, you
might like him, but first, become his friend. Start liking things that he
likes, but don't get too much involved. He might become too crowded. First, try
by asking him questions. Don't take it wrong if he says something bad about
what you like. That's just his opinion, so don't get mad or give up! Just try
talking about something different, but don't stop doing what you like to do. If
he doesn't like you for who you are, then let him be. Try a new hairstyle, new
clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while. Because
variety might be the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye. Try
being that girl who is different from all the other "okay" looking
girls. Give him the eyes, because "beauty is common, but a good outlook
and great energy are very rare." Guys love when girls look them in the eyes.
However, be true to yourself, otherwise he might ending up liking you, but, not
your actual self.
5 Consider letting him know you are single. Be yourself.
Everyone probably says this, but it's true. No guy wants a girl that pretends
like she is something she is not. Show him that you are a good friend. Listen
to the music he listens to. Just don't come on too clingy. No boy wants a girl
who just follows him around all day. In addition, if you want to find out more
about him, don't stalk the poor guy. Just find out about him from his friends
you trust. For example, ask them about his likes and dislikes, what music he is
into, what concerts he goes to, if he likes anyone, etc. Be confident in
yourself, and it will show that you are an amazing person. Don't be someone
you're not. You want him to like you for who you are.
6 Don't be awkwardly flirtatious. If he's not talking to you
at the moment then don't come on too strong. Don't be a bear in hibernation
either!
7 Smile and make eye contact. If you don't smile, he won't
notice you and if he does, he might just think you're boring and not worth
talking to. So you should always put on a great smile to attract his attention.
Think you're not good at smiling? Think of something to make you laugh, find
something interesting on his body to like, or you can try putting on a fake
smile and you may find that a real, genuine smile will appear all of a sudden.
You have to make yourself happy in order to be happy. Unless it really makes
you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them
know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea
is to communicate that you're inviting their company.
8 Be cute. He will come over and talk to you. Don't be a
total wallflower, but if you're just reading, try and look cute and wait until
he can't resist and he might ask what book you're reading and take the
conversation on from there. Remember to look at him and not the book when he
talks to you. In that way you will look interested in him, and make him feel
welcome. Then he will think you are friendly.
9 Flirt. Do it as much as you want, but remember that too
much flirting, especially with other guys, will likely get him to take notice,
but perhaps not in a good way. So be careful! Don't do too much, but not too
little either. Sometimes you might look too girlie, popular, wanna-be, etc. If
he reacts and you don't think it's real, he's just doing it because you're
there and you're a girl and he thinks he can do better, but let him know he
can't. If he is faking it, call his bluff and say something that makes him know
you don't think he is "all that".
For example, if he comes close,
pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance his ego. And he won't get
the right impression.
10 Start up conversations that interest you both. Make sure
you don't go on about nothing. Definitely make sense when you talk to him.
Don't twirl your hair, flick your eyelashes or giggle nonstop. He can get kind
of scared and make fun of you. No matter how old you are, guys will always be
the same. Be yourself! Just be who you are, that's the #1 quality guys look for
in a girl.
11 Hang out with him often but not too often; you don't
always want to be hanging around because you might look like an annoying bug
that's always around and never goes away. Try to start a conversation about an
interesting topic, for example, if you're at a football game, ask confidently
but cutely, "Did I miss any action?". This will tell him that you
want to know about the game, but also you want to get his opinion, so he will
automatically talk to you about the game (or other topics). Start slowly like a
movie or party. Try not to make it so noticeable because he might not be
interested.
12 Be assertive. You are the girl. You have the power. A lot
of guys are shy and awkward around girls they like, so don't hold back. Do what
you want to do. Boys like a powerful girl. Be decisive. Which means make
decisions! Tell him what you want him to do, etc. Just don't get too bossy!
13 Make him feel special. There has got to be a reason that
you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him
know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want
to get to know him better.
14 Wear appropriate make-up. Make-up is a powerful tool; it
can enhance your natural beauty or overshadow you entirely. Choose a look that
suits your face, your coloring, and your clothing style. Then learn to apply it
well. You know, guys hate girls who wear too much make up. They may think it
looks hot for a while but then it tends to be like this: They break up with you
(think you're just a doll) and fall in love with a natural girl.
15 Don't be a slob. It's a real turn-off for a guy when he
notices a girl hasn't brushed her hair, hasn't cleaned her ears (they always
look in there) or wears the same outfit every other day. Even if you don't fall
within the typical expectations, you must at least look presentable. It is
always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl.
16 Just talk to him. When it comes down to it, talking to a
guy, and flirting with him, will get his attention, and if it doesn't, then
nothing will work to solve it.
17 If he's looking your way, give him something to look at.
If he's looking at you, you can:
Look away shyly, making you seem mysterious because he can't
figure out why you did that.
Look into his eyes
really briefly, then smile and drop something so you can "pick it
up". (don't be too obvious, that will make you seem weird and desperate). Ignore him. Let him
watch you by himself. If he is looking only at you, try to share your thoughts.
Ex. You are in a boring class, using your facial expression and pulled a face
at the teacher, then looking back at him and smile. Sharing these intimate
moments makes you closer to him.
18 If you catch him sneaking glances at you, then he is
probably interested and trying to keep you in his sight but don't let him know
that you are looking at him.
19 But most importantly, do not be indecent. Be yourself,
not a plastic Barbie doll. It's okay once in awhile to show off your body, but
do it in a minor way. Don't wear shirts that reveal too much and don't wear
extremely tight pants and shorts that look like Megan Fox should be wearing
them.
20 Find out what kinds of things he likes and try to get
into them too. He'll appreciate the fact you two have things in common but
don't copy everything about him.
21 If you have never talked to this guy before, just smile
at him when you pass by. Subtle hints like that will keep you in his mind. He
will be saying "Who was she? Great smile, hair, face, etc." or
"I need to find out who she is". He will then be dropping smiles back
to you, and one thing will lead to another. There is proof that this will work.
Just try it out yourself. If you don't get the desired results, just try saying
a simple, "Hi." It will show him you're bold. This could make the
start of great friends, which could make the start of a great
boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
22 If you notice that he's trying to flirt with you, don't
ignore it , flirt back but don't be to obvious , play a lil bit hard to get but
not too hard or he will just give up and start with a new girl
23 Try not to over-flirt. Just a little bit here and there
is fine. Too much= looking like a slut who flirts with just about every other
guy.If the guy is decent enough, he probably won't like the slutty type.
24 If you are afraid to talk to him, and everyone's
pestering you to, talk to him when you feel comfortable about it, no matter how
long it takes. Do look at him occasionally cutely and attract his attention,
drop him hints, and if you have a mutual friend get them to ask him what he
thinks about you and maybe even get your mutual friend to tell him you think
he's good looking or something, this way he will know you like him and you
don't even have to tell him!!
25 Be yourself, people always say to be yourself, but nobody
listens to it. Think about it. If the relationship continues, you will be
living on a lie. It all won't be real. At some point he will see the real you,
so just show him now.
26 Don't wait too long. If you're finding that you have
feelings for a guy that you don't really know, such a guy who goes to your
school, you've had classes with him, but you still haven't really talked to him
at all, then you have to get on it. Don't wait months to talk to him because If
he feels the same way at first, but he's too shy, then he'll feel like you're
just not interested. When you realize that you like him, take charge and make
the first move, if he doesn't. Let him know that you like him, because he might
feel the same way. But you'll never know unless you let him know. Plus if you
wait months to talk to him, you may lose your confidence to chat with him
because it's been so long since you two first met, or talked last.
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